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Groom’s Wedding Day Survival Guide

• May 5, 2017
• by Dan Decker

The big day is near and chances are, it’s the most nervous you’ve felt since you popped the big question that put you in this predicament in the first place. Wedding day is a whirlwind of stress, family, friends, love and beauty. As the leading man you are going to ensure that you, and your soon-to-be bride, will enjoy every minute of it with this Groom’s Wedding Day Survival Guide. Here are 10 day-of essentials as you become a married man.

1. Eat a Hearty Breakfast – Breakfast is already the most important meal of the day without throwing in the fact that this day is going to be a manic-paced, whirlwind of crazy…in a good way.  There is no telling when and if you will even get to enjoy that epic meal you picked out for the reception (good thing you enjoyed the test dinner beforehand). So fuel up on something tried-and-true (today isn’t the day to get experimental), as big as your appetite will allow. Want bonus points? Have your future wife’s favorite breakfast delivered to her that morning.
2. Do Something Relaxing – Spend some fleeting moments of bachelorhood on something you enjoy. Wrangle your groomsmen together to catch one last game. Bunker down for one final epic Halo marathon. Enjoy a morning of golf with your pops and soon-to-be father-in-law. Dave & Buster’s? Poolside lounging? The point is, make sure to ease your nerves by doing something to enjoy yourself. Just be responsible…you have places to be soon.
3. Manage Your Men – Which brings us to our next point…wedding day is supposed to be fun, but all in moderation (at least until the reception). Doing something as a group the morning of can help ensure your men are ready and in line.  Your guys don’t have to be saints, but they will have responsibilities. It’s your job to know what they are.
4. Clean Up – Hopefully it comes as a given, but today requires a little extra effort getting ready. While everyone’s eyes may be on the bride, there’s going to be at least one pair, the most important one (hers), putting you in the center of the universe. It starts the night before with a good night’s rest, getting as much as your excitement/nerves will allow. Take a good shower. Enlist the aid of your barber for a quality shave (double up on #3 and make it a groom’s trip). Make sure everything is ironed. Oh, and extra deodorant in case those nerves turn to sweat.
5. Show Her You Are Thinking of Her – In the hustle and bustle of the day, it’s sweet to show her that you are thinking of her. The morning of, consider sending her a little gift, like engraved jewelry with your special date that she can wear that day and remember forever. Or skip the gift and go with a handwritten letter delivered by one of your groomsmen. Her heart will burst in the anticipation of meeting you at the alter knowing how excited you are to finally be starting your new life together
6. Know the Plan – Who’s the man? You’re the man. Make sure you have all important numbers on hand (wedding planner, mother-of-the-bride, best man, photographer, etc.). Have the agenda and directions for everywhere you need to be. Watch the time and keep your men in check. Know who should have the rings, who will pin your boutonniere, and who has extra mints before your first kiss.
7. Do Something Unexpected – Not like you need to organize a flash mob or anything, but the already special day can get an extra stamp of “awwww” with a well thought out romantic surprise. Whether it’s a series of hidden love notes or surprise fireworks at the end of the night, step up your romance game and awe your bride with a cute gesture that will make her gush. Just remember the day is about her, and you both, so keep your inner Michael Scott at bay.
8. Get It Right – A lot of effort went into the wedding. Be a gentleman and take a moment to plan out a few brief and heartfelt words to celebrate all those who contributed. Your new wife and guests will admire this appreciative act. If you have time, gauge your thoughts in a practice run with the best man.
9. Final Prep – Your wedding has been months in the making. Don’t let well laid plans go to waste because of a few last-minute nerves. Run down the plan one last time.  Practice your vows. Charge your phone. Give yourself one last spritz of cologne. Check yourself head-to-toe in the mirror. Get to the venue nice and early (aim for at least 30 mins). Leave yourself plenty of time…
10. Soak it All In – You made it. And even though you’re likely still a nervous wreck…it’ll all fade as those doors open and you finally see your beautiful bride. You’ve likely heard it, and you’ll likely forget, so remember to remember…The day will go by fast. TAKE. IT. ALL. IN. These are precious moments you can’t repeat. Take a mental snapshot. You’ll be thankful in 5, 10, 20, and 50 years from now.

There you have it. Perhaps the biggest day of your life so far is here. Do your prep and above all, relax and enjoy the day with your new bride. Cherish the ceremony, reception and look forward to your honeymoon. You earned it!

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Dan Decker

Dan Decker is the charismatic, romantic and knowledgeable Customer Care Manager for Robbins Brothers. He enjoys helping customers fulfill their engagement dreams, but when he's not working it's all about quality time spent with his daughter and lovely wife of 20 years.

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