We need coffee ASAP….can you tell?! Up pretty late watching the VMAs and also on social networks listening in on people talk about Lady Gaga as a man, Chris Brown’s ‘flying’ performance, Kanye West trying his best to behave, another celebratory award for Britney Spears, and Beyonce’s pregnancy news! Congrats to Bey and Jay who are expecting their first child. Both were glowing at the show last night.
First she had a career, then she dated, then she became a wife, and now Beyonce prepares for motherhood which leads us to today’s topic. Do you think it’s more important to be a good wife OR a good mother?


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I think they go hand in hand, you can’t be a good wife unless you are a good mother and vice versa, thus the meaning of the word “family”. Individuals coming together to make one unit of people who love, care, and look out for one another.
Both! A happy wife = a happy life. A well balanced life is much more important than anything else. If u give time to both husband & kids you’re considered a super mom. So, why not be all of the above.
A good wife is the most important role. A good wife supports a good husband, as a good husband supports a good wife. The two are dependent upon each other, both providing love and support which leads to a happy, healthy relationship to raise and support and promote a strong, happy, healthy family unit. Why would you want to bring children into a family that has not first built the foundation with a good wife and a good husband. Those roles are the cornerstone and will allow a good wife to effortlessly transition into a good mother, as it will allow a good husband to easily transition into the role of a good father.
It seems that whenever someone has deep rooted psychological issues, it somehow relates back to their childhood and how they were raised. Therefore, a Mother is a much more important role than a wife because a Mother molds her child’s personality and psychology and can have a positive or negative impact on the development of the child. A wife is great psychological support, but she doesn’t develop her spouse’s personality. A child’s personality is created before they are four years of age.
A good mom. Being a good mom makes life easier in the long run for you and your child who will always be @ your side no matter what.