Inspiration

10 Things Every Husband Wants To Hear

• August 22, 2017
• by Natasha Burton

Stereotypically, guys aren’t exactly forthcoming about their feelings, nor do they tend to want to talk about them. Whether this is perception, socialization or reality, it doesn’t really matter. What’s important is that your husband may not vocalize his emotions very often or express what he needs.

While it’s certainly not your job, so to speak, you can definitely encourage him to tap into his softer side by giving him the emotional support he may not tell you he needs. The following ten statements are likely things you already feel but may not actually utter all too often. Give these simple phrases a spin and watch your man feel more validated—and your relationship flourish.

1. 1. I love you. You can really never say this one too much. Make sure he knows it.
   2. Thank you. You and your man may handle chores and other responsibilities like clockwork. But taking the time to show a little gratitude goes a long way.
   3. I appreciate you. Appreciation goes a bit deeper than a “thank you.” Your partner wants to know how grateful you are that he is your husband, that you admire the effort he puts in at work to contribute to your lifestyle, and that all the big compromises and sacrifices he makes for you really do matter.
   4. You’re a good man. Even the most confident guy needs to be reaffirmed that he’s on the right path now and again.
   5. You’re doing a great job. If you and your partner have children, it’s important to remind him of what a great father he is. He may doubt his abilities from time to time—it’s only human—and showing him you notice his abilities will mean the world.
   6. You’re hot. Of course, your man wants to be reminded that you still find him as attractive and sexy as you did the moment you two met.
   7. Go have fun with your friends. Guys don’t want to feel like they have to ask permission to have a social life. (No one does, right?)
   8. I want to have fun with my friends. Your partner will appreciate and honor the fact that you want to nurture bonds with your pals. These relationships help sustain you and make you happy—he wants to see you value them.
   9. I respect what you’re passionate about. You and your partner may have different hobbies or passions. Instead of asking your husband to give these up, show him love by respecting what makes him happy.
   10. You’re enough. We all want to feel like we’re meeting our partners’ needs and expectations. We all fall short sometimes. But look at the big picture and remind your man that he’s fulfilling you. Hearing this, he’ll be encouraged to continue doing so.

How do you appreciate the special guy in your life? We’d love to hear about it!

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Natasha Burton

Relationship expert Natasha Burton is the author of four books: 101 Quizzes for Brides & Grooms, 101 Quizzes for Couples, 101 Quizzes for BFFs, and The Little Black Book of Big Red Flags. When she's not writing, she's likely doing yoga, baking, or watching The Bachelor.

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