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How To Choose A Ladies Wedding Band

• April 11, 2016
• by Natasha Burton

How to Choose A Ladies Wedding Band…When You’ve Never Worn Jewelry Before

Picking a ladies wedding band is quite an important decision, especially since it’s a piece of jewelry you’ll wear for the rest of your life. But this choice can be fairly difficult if you’re not used to wearing jewelry in general – how do you know what ring will suit you best and stand the test of time?

To help you out, here are some crucial questions to ask yourself before selecting this all-important piece of bling.

1. What are my ring priorities?  First and foremost, your wedding band is a symbol of your love—that goes without saying. But it’s important to consider its role beyond the emotional. For instance: Do you want to be able to wear this ring everywhere you go, like the gym, the beach or on vacation—and leave your engagement ring safe at home? If so, you may consider something more simple and less pricey, in case it gets damaged or lost.
2. What size feels right?  Your ring size is one thing, but you also want to consider the band’s thickness when choosing the ideal one for you. If you’re coupling the band with an engagement ring, you may opt for something skinnier that will complement your rock. If you’d prefer to make more of a statement, you may choose one with color and a more bold design. And, if you’d like to have your ring engraved on the inside, you’ll need to make sure you have enough width for an inscription. There are no rules here—it’s all up to what looks and feels right on your finger.  
3. How much sparkle do I want?  Try on various rings with different amounts of bling to see what suits you best. (Even guys’ bands can have some extra shine with traditional, black or chocolate diamonds!) Typically, you won’t want your band to overshadow your rock, but to each their own: See what suits your style, and budget, best.
4. How will this ring fit in with my everyday tasks?  Consider your lifestyle and job are actually pretty important when choosing a band. If you work with your hands day in, day out, you may want to choose something sans bling so the stones don’t get caught on whatever you’re doing. If you work with heavy machinery or tools, which can cause your fingers to swell, you may opt for a softer metal over titanium. Before making your final selection, talk with your jeweler about how your ring can best suit your daily life.
5. What’s my ideal ring style?  Now’s the fun part—incorporating your personal style into your wedding band. There are so many options these days when it comes to wedding bands with added flair. In addition to diamonds, you may want a band with other stones (like sapphires) or even inlaid wood. You’ll also get to choose the metal, from warm rose gold to sleek platinum. Look to your existing wardrobe for clues as to what styles you’re drawn to aesthetically—you may be more of a classic, preppy type or more rock and roll—and consider creating a Pinterest board of rings to help you hone in on a band that suits your personality. 
     

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Natasha Burton

Relationship expert Natasha Burton is the author of four books: 101 Quizzes for Brides & Grooms, 101 Quizzes for Couples, 101 Quizzes for BFFs, and The Little Black Book of Big Red Flags. When she's not writing, she's likely doing yoga, baking, or watching The Bachelor.

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